kick oneself

Feel sharp regret

To kick oneself is to feel sharp regret or self-reproach for a mistake or missed opportunity: I could kick myself for not buying that house when it was cheap.

The image suggests wanting to punish yourself physically for your own stupidity.

Almost always hypothetical—expressing frustration rather than literal intent.

regret

remorse

Guilt for wrongdoing

chagrin · compunction · pang · heartache · wistfulness · lamentation · woe · contrition · penitence · repentance

frustration

exasperation

Intense weary annoyance

dismay · agitation · impatience · disgruntlement · face-palm · doh · argh · careless error · oversight · blunder

self-blame

culpability

Deserving blame for wrongdoing

responsibility · accountability · ownership · inner critic

Opposites
self-directed emotional response to past actions

kick oneselfpat oneself on the back

self-forgiveness · self-compassion · self-acceptance · let it go · shrug it off

temporal emotional orientation toward past actions

kick oneselflet it go

Cease fixating on something

move on · shake it off · get over it · water under the bridge · forgive and forget

Family

kick, kicks, kicked, kicking, kicker, kickers, oneself, self, selves

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G