keeping one's cool

Not losing temper

Keeping one’s cool refers to maintaining composure under stress or provocation.

The phrase gained traction in the mid-20th century, paralleling the rise of “cool” as a cultural ideal in jazz and counterculture movements.

Techniques for keeping one’s cool often involve deliberate breathing, cognitive reframing, or grounding exercises.

In psychology, it aligns with emotional regulation strategies, such as suppressing impulsive reactions or redirecting focus.

Despite the chaos, she excelled at keeping her cool during the presentation.

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diplomacy · restraint · bite one's tongue · tact · fortitude · stress tolerance · coping skills · grace under pressure · nerves of steel · grit · mental toughness · deliberation · serenity · perseverance · courtesy · respectfulness · prudence · adaptability

Opposites
emotional composure

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Sudden loss of composure

flying off the handle · blowing up · losing it · freaking out · going ballistic

behavioral restraint

keeping one's coollashing out

Aggressive sudden reaction

hitting the roof · going off · erupting · raging · acting out

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G