keep one's hands to oneself

Refrain from touching

To keep one's hands to oneself is to refrain from touching others—whether aggressively or sexually.

Parents tell children to keep their hands to themselves when they hit or grab: If you can't keep your hands to yourself, you'll have to sit in timeout.

In adult contexts, the phrase often warns against unwanted sexual contact: He couldn't keep his hands to himself at the party.

Related

bodily autonomy · courtesy · civility · good manners · informed consent · unwanted advances · self-control · back off · keep your distance · restraint · tact · discretion · touching · hands off · decorum · empathy · distance · voluntary action

Opposites
physical contact/touching

keep one's hands to oneselfgrope

Feel about blindly

groping · cop a feel · grab · paw at · fondle

self-control/restraint

keep one's hands to oneselflose control

Fail to maintain composure

consent/boundary respect

keep one's hands to oneselfmolest

Assault or bother harmfully

grope · assault · violate · harass · take liberties

Family

keeper, keepers, keeping, oneself, handed, handing, handily, handful, handfuls

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G