holds one's peace

Keeps thoughts inside

To hold one's peace is to remain silent, especially when you might otherwise speak up to object or complain.

The phrase appears in traditional wedding ceremonies—speak now or forever hold your peace—inviting objections before the marriage proceeds.

More broadly, it means choosing not to voice disagreement: I held my peace during the meeting, though I thought the plan was foolish.

Related

zip one's lip · quietude · composure · cool head · decorum · taciturnity · say nothing · discretion · reserve · reticence · self-control · prudence · forbearance · patience · let it go · propriety · restraint · stillness

Opposites
verbal expression

holds one's peacespeaks up

Vocalizes a view

sounds off · speaks one's mind · says one's piece · chimes in · lets loose

conflict engagement

holds one's peaceprotests

Public expressions of opposition

objects · dissents · speaks up · makes a scene · rocks the boat

emotional restraint vs. expression

holds one's peacelets loose

Frees or unburdens

explodes · blows up · loses one's temper · vents · lashes out

Family

hold, holds, holding, holder, holders, holdout, holdover, behold, beholden

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G