held the reins

Was in charge

To hold the reins is to be in control or command of something, from the literal act of guiding a horse by its straps.

Someone who holds the reins directs operations or makes decisions: She held the reins of the company for two decades.

The past tense held the reins typically describes a period of leadership now concluded or being discussed historically.

Related

tight grip · horseman · command · influence · mastery · saddle · equestrianism · authority figure · delegation · driver's seat · captaincy · power struggle · backseat driver · at the helm · strategy · helm · decision-making · responsibility

Opposites
control and authority

held the reinstook orders

Followed another's instructions

obeyed · kowtowed · submitted · deferred · took a back seat

agency and initiative

held the reinsdrifted

Moved without aim

went along · tagged along · fell in line

possession of power

held the reinslost control

Failed to maintain composure

abdicated

Family

held, holds, holding, holdings, holder, holders, beholden, behold, beheld

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G