had it out

Settled the dispute

To have it out with someone is to engage in a direct, often heated confrontation to resolve a disagreement or address a grievance.

The phrase implies a deliberate decision to stop avoiding conflict and instead face it head-on.

After weeks of tension, they finally had it out about the money.

The confrontation may involve shouting or harsh words, but the goal is typically to clear the air rather than escalate hostilities.

Related

airing grievances · negotiation · assertiveness · debate · trust · compromise · reconciliation · vulnerability · anger · resolution · frustration · let off steam · clarification · outburst · relief · cleared the air · heart to heart · confrontation

Opposites
confrontation vs. avoidance

had it outturned a blind eye

Feigned unawareness deliberately

bit one's tongue · kept the peace · held back · looked the other way · sidestepped

open expression vs. suppression

had it outrepressed

Held back from expression

said nothing · internalized

directness vs. indirectness

had it outbeat around the bush

Avoid stating directly

hedged · equivocated · dropped hints

Family

had, having, hath, out, outer, outermost, outward, outwardly, outing

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G