guilt tripper

Shame-wielding person

A guilt tripper is someone who habitually manipulates others by making them feel guilty.

The tactic involves reminding people of obligations, sacrifices, or disappointments to pressure them into compliance: My mother is such a guilt tripper—she brings up everything she's ever done for me whenever I can't visit.

The term is informal and mildly pejorative.

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victim · playing the victim · martyr · woe is me · passive-aggressive · cold shoulder · resentment · obligation · apology · tears · crocodile tears · sigh · disappointment · drama · controlling · needy · toxic · burden

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communication style

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Forthright, blunt person

straight talker · honest broker

emotional impact on others

guilt tripperencourager

One who heartens others

uplifter · cheerleader · motivator · affirmer · validator

interpersonal ethics

guilt tripperempowerer

One who strengthens others

liberator

Family

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