good fences make good neighbors

Separation maintains harmony

A proverb meaning that clear boundaries prevent conflict between people.

The idea is that respecting limits—physical or otherwise—preserves relationships by preventing encroachment and resentment.

The saying gained fame through Robert Frost's poem "Mending Wall," though Frost's speaker questions rather than endorses it: He will not go behind his father's saying.

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individualism · mutual respect · coexistence · cooperation · autonomy · keep to yourself · harmony · limit · land · Robert Frost · New England · rural life · compromise · avoidance · demarcation · white picket fence · barrier · possession

Opposites
interpersonal boundary philosophy

good fences make good neighborsno man is an island

People need community

open-door policy · share and share alike · love thy neighbor · the more the merrier · open arms

social organization principles

good fences make good neighborstragedy of the commons

Shared resources ruined by self-interest

common ownership · communalism · collectivism · shared spaces · public access

individualism vs communitarianism

good fences make good neighborsubuntu

Shared humanity ethic

commune · collectivism · kibbutz · sharing economy · commons

Family

fences, neighbors, fenced, neighbour, neighbours, neighborhood, neighbourhood, neighboring, neighbouring

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