getting a word in edgewise

Speaking amid dominators

Getting a word in edgewise means managing to speak when someone else dominates the conversation.

The phrase suggests squeezing words into narrow gaps, as if turning them sideways to fit: She talked so much I couldn't get a word in edgewise.

Almost always appears in negative constructions—failing to get a word in, or barely managing to.

Related

wait your turn · interruption · dominance · active listening · dialogue · group dynamics · tactfulness · power imbalance · shut out · monologue · conflict resolution · cutting in · butting in · exclusion · miscommunication · awkwardness · confidence · speaking up

Opposites
conversational participation

getting a word in edgewisesuffering in silence

biting one's tongue · holding one's peace

conversational dominance

getting a word in edgewisefilibustering

Prolonged speech blocking legislation

talking someone's ear off · pontificating · going on and on · holding forth · monologuing

Family

worded, wording, wordless, edgiest, unwise

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G