get ahold of oneself

Steady your nerves

To get ahold of oneself is to regain composure or self-control, especially after becoming emotional, panicked, or scattered: Get ahold of yourself—we need to think clearly right now.

The phrase implies pulling oneself together when distress threatens to overwhelm.

Also spelled *get a hold of oneself*.

Related

pull yourself together · get a grip · grounding techniques · take a deep breath · breathing exercises · count to ten · serenity · tranquility · cool your jets · steadiness · recentering · resolve · calmness · restraint · self-discipline · snap out of it · hold it together · mindfulness

Opposites
emotional control

get ahold of oneselflose control

Fail to maintain composure

fall apart · lose it · break down · go to pieces · have a meltdown

behavioral regulation

get ahold of oneselflose control

Fail to maintain composure

fly off the handle · go berserk · flip out · blow up · explode

Family

getting, ahold, holds, holding, holder, holders, holdout, holdover, behold

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G