gentleman's agreements

Unwritten mutual promises

Gentleman's agreements are informal deals sealed by trust and honor rather than legal contracts.

The understanding is that parties will keep their word without written enforcement: The merger proceeded on a gentleman's agreement until lawyers drafted the paperwork.

Historically, such agreements often excluded outsiders—gentleman's agreements kept Jews out of country clubs and Black families out of neighborhoods.

The term now applies to any unwritten mutual understanding, though it retains connotations of closed-door dealing among the privileged.

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