failing at life

Persistent personal collapse

Failing at life is a self-deprecating or critical assessment that someone isn't meeting basic expectations of adult competence—holding a job, maintaining relationships, managing daily tasks.

The phrase is often hyperbolic and humorous: I burned my toast and spilled coffee on myself—I'm failing at life today.

It can also express genuine despair about one's circumstances.

Related

couch · nihilism · anxiety · self-sabotage · hopelessness · absurdism · late stage capitalism · rock bottom · rock bottom moment · peer pressure · avoidance · shame · existential dread · societal norms · trash · emptiness · inadequacy · regret

Opposites
overall life success/achievement

failing at lifemaking it

Achieving one's goal

thriving · living the dream · killing it · crushing it · self-made success

personal fulfillment and happiness

failing at lifeflourishing

Prospering vigorously

self-actualized · fulfilled · living well · content · at peace

social standing and respectability

failing at lifepillar of the community

Respected local leader

respectable · role model · solid citizen · established

Family

fail, fails, failed, failure, failures, life, living, lively, liveliness

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG