excuse you

Chiding a burper

Excuse you is a pointed remark directed at someone who has just done something rude, inconsiderate, or socially inappropriate—belching, bumping into you without apology, or making an offensive comment.

It flips the polite formula "excuse me" into a rebuke, emphasizing that the other person should be the one apologizing.

The tone ranges from mildly reproachful to sharply sarcastic depending on context.

She cut right in front of me, so I said, "Excuse you!"

Related

wry · response · sardonic · idiomatic expression · dry humor · biting · facetious · reaction · sharp · oh really · indignant · rude · politeness · acknowledgment · well I never · courtesy · slang · no offense

Opposites
politeness/social response

excuse youno worries

Casual dismissal of concern

don't worry about it · no problem · think nothing of it · no harm done · you're fine

attribution of fault

excuse youexcuse me

Apology for minor intrusion

pardon me · my bad · I'm sorry · my apologies · I beg your pardon

rudeness/confrontation vs. politeness/deference

excuse youafter you

Polite yielding of precedence

please · thank you · no worries · don't mention it · by all means

Family

excuse, excuses, excused, excusing, excusable, inexcusable, you, your, yours

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G