after you

"Please, proceed first"

A polite phrase yielding precedence to another person, typically when entering a doorway or taking a turn: After you, I insist.

The gesture defers to the other's comfort or status.

Sometimes used ironically when two people hesitate simultaneously, each waiting for the other to proceed.

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good manners · common courtesy · subsequent · civility · gesture · doorway · go ahead · decorum · social grace · deference · chivalry · consideration · open door · respect · graciousness · invitation · threshold · usher

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Opposites
social priority/deference

after youget out of the way

move it · move aside · step aside · excuse me · coming through

politeness register

after youmove it

Command to hurry

get lost · shove off · beat it · scram · back off

Family

after, you, afterward, afterwards, afterlife, hereafter, thereafter, aftershave, aftershock

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G