done thing

Accepted standard behavior

The done thing is what's socially expected or acceptable in a particular context—proper behavior according to prevailing custom.

Usually appears with a negative: Talking politics at dinner isn't the done thing.

The phrase is more common in British than American English and carries a slightly old-fashioned, class-conscious tone.

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etiquette · proper etiquette · common courtesy · protocol · norm · tradition · decorum · custom · polite society · convention · social convention · rule · reality · certainty · fact of life · habit · guideline · standard

Opposites
social propriety

done thingfaux pas

Social misstep or indiscretion

improper · bad form · not done · gaffe · solecism

conventionality

done thingunconventional

Departing from standard practice

unorthodox · nonconformity · taboo · breaking with tradition · eccentricity

Family

done, thing, does, doing, doer, doers, undone, undoing, redone

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Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G