distancers

Those who withdraw

Distancers are people or things that create distance.

In psychology and relationship dynamics, a distancer is someone who pulls away when others seek closeness—the counterpart to a pursuer: In their marriage, she was the pursuer and he was the distancer.

The term also applies to devices or techniques that create physical or emotional separation.

separation

estrangement

Emotional separation between people

disengagement · withdrawal · rift · gulf · chasm · divide · split · breakup · parting · severance

privacy

personal space

Comfort distance around oneself

withdrawal · reserve · seclusion · aloneness · isolation · discretion · reclusiveness · quietude · autonomy · independence

protection

barriers

Things blocking access

guards · defenses · screens · partitions · dividers · blockers · filters · separators · insulators · cushions

Opposites
attachment behavior in relationships

distancersclingers

Those who grasp tightly

pursuers · attachers · chasers · approachers · smotherers

proximity-seeking behavior

distancersapproachers

Those getting nearer

closers · embracers · gatherers · uniters · joiners

Phrases
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distance, distances, distanced, long-distance, short-distance, distancer

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