demisexuals

Bond-first attraction orientation

Demisexuals are people who experience sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond with someone.

The term belongs to the asexuality spectrum—demisexuals don't feel attraction based on appearance or initial chemistry alone.

As a demisexual, I've never understood hookup culture.

The singular is demisexual, used as both noun and adjective.

identity

allosexual

Experiencing sexual attraction

  • LGBTQ+Sexual and gender minorities
  • queerUnusual or non-normative
  • prideSatisfaction from one's achievements

spectrum · demisexuality · coming-out · self-discovery · visibility · representation · label · terminology · valid · acceptance

relationships

trust

Confidence in another

companionship · patience · communication · vulnerability · closeness · attachment · understanding · loyalty · monogamy · boundaries

attraction

familiarity

Knowledge through experience

rapport · comfort · safety

Opposites
position on asexual spectrum

demisexualsasexuals

Those without sexual attraction

sexuals

Family

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Familiarity
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