curry favour

Butter someone up

To curry favour is to seek approval or advancement through flattery, obsequiousness, or excessive attentiveness to someone in power: He curried favour with the boss by laughing at every joke.

The phrase comes from a medieval French satire about grooming a horse named Fauvel, symbol of duplicity—though most speakers today simply understand it as strategic ingratiation.

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kiss the ring · suck up to · fawn · ingratiate · toady · obsequiousness · court · sycophancy · schmooze · sweet-talk · brown-nose · blandish · kiss up · lay it on thick · soft-soap · flatter · grovel · adulate

Opposites
social approach

curry favourantagonize

Incite hostility in

alienate · offend · provoke · burn bridges · repel

social hierarchy navigation

curry favourspeak truth to power

Criticize those in charge

stand up to · challenge · resist · rebel

Family

curry, favour, favor, favourable, favorable, unfavourable, unfavorable, favourably, favorably

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Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G