curries favor

Ingratiates through flattery

To curry favor is to seek approval or advancement through flattery and obsequious behavior.

The phrase comes from grooming—curry meaning to brush a horse's coat—combined with a corruption of an old French term.

Someone who curries favor with the boss is trying to get on their good side through excessive agreeableness: He's always currying favor with management.

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wheedle · praise · fawn · lay it on thick · deception · sycophancy · motivation · sweet-talk · influence · play politics · adulation · cajole · win over · toady · ingratiate · apple-polish · impression management · grovel

Opposites
social authenticity

curries favortells it like it is

Speaks with brutal candor

social strategy

curries favorantagonizes

Actively creates hostility

alienates · provokes · offends · rocks the boat · rubs the wrong way

power orientation

curries favorstands up to

Opposes without retreating

challenges · resists

Family

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