crying uncle

Giving in verbally

Crying uncle is admitting defeat or surrendering, especially when under physical or psychological pressure.

The phrase comes from the childhood ritual where one person pins another and demands they "say uncle" to be released.

Adults use it figuratively: After three failed attempts, I finally cried uncle and called a professional.

The origin of "uncle" as a surrender word remains obscure.

Opposites
submission vs. victory

crying unclewinning

Achieving victory

triumphing · conquering · prevailing · dominating · vanquishing

yielding vs. persisting

crying uncleholding out

Refusing to surrender

persevering · enduring · gritting one's teeth · hanging in there · soldiering on

capitulation vs. defiance

crying uncledefying

Actively refusing obedience

resisting · fighting back · standing one's ground · holding firm · digging in

Family

crying, uncle, cries, cried, crier, criers, uncles, avuncular

Familiarity
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Profile
Mostly American · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G