cry someone a river

Dismiss excessive complaints

To cry someone a river is to weep excessively or dramatically, but the phrase almost always appears as a dismissive retort: Oh, cry me a river.

Said to someone complaining or seeking sympathy, it means their grievance doesn't merit the tears they're shedding—or threatening to shed.

The tone ranges from playful to contemptuous.

Related

cry · sob story · overstate · sardonic · exaggeration · facetious · mocking · trivialize · snarky · patronize · woe is me · expression · cynical · derisive · tongue-in-cheek · flippant · violin · dismiss

Opposites
emotional response to distress

cry someone a rivercomfort

Ease or soothing relief

console · empathize · commiserate · sympathize · soothe

sympathy authenticity

cry someone a riverfeel someone's pain

Emotionally comprehend another's distress

Family

crying, crier, someone, river, rivers, riverine, riverbank, riverside

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G