comes to terms with

Makes peace with

Comes to terms with means to accept something difficult or unwelcome after a period of resistance or struggle.

The phrase suggests arriving at a mental settlement—making peace with circumstances you cannot change: She's still coming to terms with her diagnosis.

It implies gradual emotional processing rather than immediate acceptance.

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concession · adaptation · closure · forgiveness · coping · adjustment · accommodation · letting go · moving forward · allows · realization · catharsis · comprehension · making peace · inner peace · acquiescence · flexibility · understanding

Opposites
psychological acceptance

comes to terms withdenies

Declares something untrue

rejects · ignores · suppresses · represses · avoids

emotional resolution

comes to terms withclings to

Holds on tightly

resents

negotiation/agreement

comes to terms withwalks away from

Leaves a situation deliberately

stonewalls

Family

come, comes, coming, term, terms, termed, terming, terminal, terminate

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