come to grips

Start handling it

Come to grips means to engage seriously with something difficult—a problem, a situation, or an unpleasant reality.

The phrase suggests grappling directly rather than avoiding: It took him years to come to grips with his father's death.

You might come to grips with a diagnosis, a financial crisis, or the implications of a decision.

The grip is mental or emotional, not physical.

confront

face

Head's anterior surface

grapple · accept · acknowledge · reconcile · cope with · handle · manage · work through · process · overcome

understand

grasp

Seize or understand

learn · figure out · absorb · digest · internalize · apprehend · perceive · discern · make sense of · get the hang of

Opposites
engagement vs. avoidance

come to gripsavoid

Stay away from

evade · shy away from · bury one's head in the sand · dodge · sidestep

acceptance vs. denial

come to gripsdeny

Refuse to admit

reject · bury one's head in the sand · disavow · repress · suppress

understanding vs confusion

come to gripsmisunderstand

Grasp incorrectly

Family

come, grip, coming, came, gripping, comes, gripped, grips, handgrip

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G