collects oneself

Steadies the nerves

To collect oneself is to regain composure after being startled, upset, or emotionally scattered.

The phrase suggests gathering dispersed feelings back into a unified, controlled state: She took a moment to collect herself before responding.

Often appears as collect yourself in advice or commands.

Related

refocus · calm · deep breath · steady · equanimous · recalibrate · tranquil · moderate · serene · composed · stabilize · centered · pull together · regulate · get a grip · mindful · clear head · deliberate

Opposites
emotional composure

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Loses control from fear

falls apart · loses it · freaks out · breaks down · loses control

behavioral response to stress

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Loses control from fear

flails · loses one's head · runs around like a chicken with its head cut off · lashes out · scatters

mental focus

collects oneselfscatters

Distributes irregularly about

zones out · spaces out

Family

collect, collects, collected, collecting, collection, collections, collective, collectively, collector

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G