came to terms with

Reconciled oneself to

Came to terms with means to accept something difficult or unwelcome after a period of resistance or struggle.

The phrase suggests arriving at a settled understanding with reality: She finally came to terms with her diagnosis.

It often implies emotional resolution—making peace with circumstances you cannot change: He never came to terms with his father's death.

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bitter pill · equanimity · realization · face the facts · hard truth · coping · clarity · acknowledgment · reconciliation · compromise · peace · inner peace · letting go · water under the bridge · perspective · adaptation · new normal · healing

Opposites
psychological acceptance

came to terms withdenied

Refused or disavowed

rejected · avoided · repressed · suppressed · resisted

negotiation/agreement

came to terms withdisputed

Argued over, unresolved

contested

Family

came, comes, term, terms, termed, terming, terminal, terminate, termination

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G