breathing down someone's neck

Monitoring too closely

Breathing down someone's neck is monitoring them so closely it feels intrusive or oppressive—like standing close enough that they can feel your breath.

A boss breathing down your neck watches your every move: I can't work with him breathing down my neck like that.

The phrase can also mean pursuing closely, as in a race or competition.

Related

supervision · encroachment · intimidation · hovering · tension · micromanagement · shadowing · scrutiny · stalking · oversight · vigilance · crowding · in your face · discomfort · invasion · nearness · helicopter parenting · backseat driving

Opposites
proximity and surveillance

breathing down someone's neckgiving space

Allowing personal distance

backing off · standing back · hands-off · leaving alone · looking the other way

autonomy and trust

breathing down someone's necktrusting

Inclined to believe others

delegating · empowering · laissez-faire · non-interference · benign neglect

pressure and urgency

breathing down someone's neckrelaxing

Becoming less tense

taking it easy

Family

breathe, breath, breathed, breaths, breather, breathless, breathlessly, breathing, downer

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G