blow smoke up someone's ass

Deceive with praise

To blow smoke up someone's ass is to flatter them insincerely or feed them obvious lies, especially to manipulate or placate them.

The phrase is vulgar and emphatic: Don't blow smoke up my ass—tell me what you really think.

Someone who suspects they're being handled might demand no smoke-blowing.

Related

sweet-talk · manipulation · dishonesty · duplicity · insincerity · smoke up · smoke and mirrors · sugarcoat · lay it on thick · flattery · misrepresentation · artifice · fraudulence · put on airs · kiss up to · pretense · brown-nose · play up to

Opposites
honesty/sincerity

blow smoke up someone's asstell it like it is

Speak with complete candor

level with · speak the truth · tell the truth · lay it on the line · call a spade a spade

flattery vs. criticism

blow smoke up someone's assburst someone's bubble

Dispel a comforting illusion

rip into · rake over the coals · pull no punches · call out

emotional impact of feedback

blow smoke up someone's assburst someone's bubble

Dispel a comforting illusion

rain on someone's parade · read someone the riot act

Family

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Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG-13