behind back

Done in secret

Behind back describes actions done without someone's knowledge or presence, typically involving secrecy or betrayal.

To talk behind someone's back is to discuss them when they're not there to hear or respond.

The phrase often implies criticism, gossip, or scheming: They made the decision behind my back.

It suggests a violation of trust—doing openly what you wouldn't do to someone's face.

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talking trash · spine · shoulder · rear · backbone · sneaky · hidden · betray · talk · rumor · stab · covert · cloak and dagger · unseen · shadows · private · deceive · treachery

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Opposites
openness/transparency

behind backopenly

Without hiding anything

in the open · publicly · out in the open · in public · transparently

interpersonal directness

behind backface to face

In someone's presence

directly · upfront · in person · head-on · point-blank

ethical conduct

behind backhonestly

In a truthful manner

aboveboard · honorably · on the level · in good faith · forthrightly

Family

behind, back, hind, hinder, hindmost, hindrance, backward, backwards, backside

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G