be civil

Mind your manners

To be civil is to treat others with basic politeness and respect, even when you disagree with them or dislike them.

The phrase often appears as a command or request to dial down hostility: Can we at least be civil to each other?

Being civil doesn't require warmth or friendliness—just enough courtesy to keep interactions from becoming hostile or degrading.

Related

self-control · bite your tongue · cool your jets · composure · graciousness · listen · cool-headed · empathy · propriety · mediation · defuse · good faith · patience · reconciliation · respectfulness · tolerance · agree to disagree · equanimity

Opposites
conflict behavior

be civilpick a fight

Intentionally provoke a quarrel

lash out · attack

emotional regulation

be civillose one's temper

React with sudden anger

fly off the handle · blow up · lash out · go off · explode

Family

civil, citizen, civic, civilian, civilized, civilization, uncivilized, uncivil, civility

Familiarity
Top 50,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G