you first

Yielding the lead

A polite or ironic phrase used when yielding precedence to someone else.

Genuinely, it offers another person the chance to go ahead: You first—I insist.

But it often carries reluctance or challenge, implying the speaker wants someone else to take the risk or make the uncomfortable move: Jump in the freezing water? You first.

Related

good manners · gesture · doorway · open door · defer · manners · hesitation · insist · kindness · etiquette · social grace · gracious · wave · stand back · gentleman · threshold · waiting · offer

Opposites
precedence/priority

you firstafter you

Polite yielding of precedence

my turn · step aside · move over · age before beauty

social disposition

you firstevery man for himself

Chaotic self-interest declaration

look out for number one · self-serving · pushy · self-centered · grabby

Family

you, first, your, yours, yourself, yourselves, firstly, foremost

Familiarity
Top 20,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G