whistling in the dark

Pretending away fear

Whistling in the dark is trying to stay cheerful or confident in a frightening or uncertain situation—like someone walking through a dark alley who whistles to calm their nerves.

The phrase usually implies the confidence is hollow or forced: His optimism about the company's future felt like whistling in the dark.

Related

denial · head in the sand · daydreaming · putting on a brave face · stiff upper lip · perseverance · adaptability · faith · stoicism · avoidance · rationalization · bravado · talking a big game · positivity · biting the bullet · grit · humor · compartmentalization

Opposites
authenticity of confidence

whistling in the darksteady nerves

Emotional stability under pressure

sang-froid · nerves of steel

acknowledgment of fear/reality

whistling in the darkfacing facts

Acknowledging uncomfortable truths

facing the music · brutal honesty · coming to terms · taking stock · sobering up

emotional authenticity

whistling in the darkinner peace

Mental and emotional tranquility

self-possession · equanimity · sang-froid · true grit

Family

whistle, whistled, whistler, whistles, darken, darkened, darkens, darker, darkest

Familiarity
Top 200,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G