weigh one's words

Consider before speaking

To weigh one's words is to choose them carefully, considering their potential impact before speaking or writing.

The expression suggests deliberation and caution, as if each word were being placed on a scale to measure its appropriateness.

Someone who weighs their words avoids saying anything rash, offensive, or easily misunderstood.

She weighed her words before responding to the accusation.

The phrase often appears in contexts involving diplomacy, delicate negotiations, or emotionally charged conversations.

Related

think before speaking · diplomacy · diplomatic language · diction · self-regulation · bite one's tongue · hold one's peace · mindfulness · read the room · clarity · caution · empathy · nuance · evaluation · phrasing · forethought · respectfulness · sensitivity

Opposites
verbal deliberation

weigh one's wordsblurt out

Utter suddenly, impulsively

shoot from the hip · spout off · run one's mouth · mouth off · pop off

verbal restraint vs. excess

weigh one's wordsramble

Move or speak without direction

babble · prattle · blather · run off at the mouth · talk a blue streak

Family

weigh, words, word, weight, weighty, weightless, weightiness, weighted, weighting

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G