unpleasantry

An awkward remark

An unpleasantry is something disagreeable or offensive—an awkward exchange, a harsh remark, or a minor conflict.

The word often appears in the plural to describe hostile interactions: Let's skip the unpleasantries and get down to business.

It's a somewhat formal or ironic way to acknowledge friction without dwelling on specifics.

rudeness

discourtesy

Rude or impolite behavior

disrespect · boorishness · crudeness · brusqueness · snub · slight · insult · affront · barb · cutting remark

conflict

quarrel

Angry verbal dispute

argument · confrontation · clash · row · spat · tiff · squabble · friction · falling-out · words

awkwardness

embarrassment

Self-conscious unease

blunder · misstep · awkward silence · clumsiness · inelegance · maladroitness · bungle · lapse · fumble · cringe

tension

unease

Mild persistent worry

friction · edginess · apprehension · nervousness · iciness · coolness · frostiness · stiffness · uneasiness

Opposites
social tone

unpleasantrypleasantry

Agreeable conversational remark

compliment · nicety · civility · courtesy · flattery

interpersonal effect

unpleasantrykindness

Considerate, caring disposition

warmth · friendliness · geniality · affability · good cheer

emotional valence of content

unpleasantrypleasantry

Agreeable conversational remark

kindness · praise · endearment · good news · reassurance

Phrases
Family

unpleasant, unpleasantness, unpleasantly, unpleasantries

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