unpleasantries

Rude or difficult exchanges

Unpleasantries are disagreeable exchanges or remarks—the opposite of pleasantries.

Where pleasantries are the polite small talk that smooths social interaction, unpleasantries are the hostile words or confrontations that roughen it: After the initial unpleasantries, the meeting settled into productive discussion.

The word often appears with a touch of irony or understatement.

rudeness

insults

Disparaging remarks

barbs · jibes · digs · put-downs · affronts · offenses · indignities · insolence · disrespect · sarcasm

conflict

hostilities

Active armed fighting

quarrel · disagreement · argument · clash · feud · friction · squabble · spat · row · falling-out

discomfort

awkwardness

Lack of grace or ease

strain · difficulty · trouble · messiness · complications · ugliness · nastiness · sticky situations · hard feelings · bad blood

Opposites
social tone

unpleasantriespleasantries

Polite conversational formalities

niceties · civilities · courtesies · pleasantness · cordialities

emotional valence

unpleasantriespleasures

Sources of enjoyment

delights · joys · comforts · pleasantness · enjoyments

conversational content

unpleasantriespleasantries

Polite conversational formalities

compliments · kind words · sweet nothings · flattery · praise

Family

please, pleasure, pleasant, pleasing, pleased, unpleasant, displeased, pleasantly, displeasure

Familiarity
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