pleasantry

Light social remark

A pleasantry is a polite or amiable remark made in casual conversation—the kind of friendly but inconsequential exchange that eases social interaction: We exchanged pleasantries before getting down to business.

Pleasantries often feel formulaic: comments about weather, health, or weekend plans.

The word can carry a faint note of dismissiveness, suggesting talk that's agreeable but empty.

banter

joke

Humorous statement seeking laughter

repartee · wisecrack · bon mot · teasing · ribbing · joshing · badinage · raillery · persiflage · drollery

exchange

greeting

Expression of welcome

compliment · nicety · civility · small talk · chitchat · remark · comment · expression · formality · courtesy

manner

affability

Warm, friendly disposition

friendliness · graciousness · amiability · courteousness · congeniality · good nature · charm · politeness · tact · diplomacy

social

mingling

Casual social interaction

reception · gathering · mixer · party · introduction · handshake · meet-and-greet · socializing · rapport · camaraderie

Categories
Opposites
tone and intent

pleasantryinsult

Offensive remark or action

criticism · barb · slight · put-down · cutting remark

conversational weight

pleasantrygravity

Mutual mass attraction

solemnity · seriousness · tragedy · grimness · somberness

social function

pleasantryconfrontation

Direct hostile encounter

hostility · antagonism · conflict · discord · friction

Phrases
Family

pleasant, unpleasant, pleasantly, pleasantness, unpleasantness, unpleasantly, pleasantries

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