takes offense

Feels personally slighted

Takes offense means to feel hurt, insulted, or angry at something said or done: She takes offense at the slightest criticism.

The phrase implies a choice in how one interprets others' words or actions—some people take offense easily, others rarely.

Often used with "at" or "to": He took offense to being called a beginner.

Related

hurt feelings · quick to anger · tone policing · grievance · resentment · umbrage · thin-skinned · bitterness · outrage · passive-aggressiveness · cultural sensitivity · reconciliation · indignation · misunderstanding · argument · anger · sore spot · wounded pride

Opposites
interpersonal conflict escalation

takes offenseforgives

Ceases to blame

moves on · water off a duck's back

emotional response to perceived slight

takes offensepays no mind

Intentionally ignores something

interpersonal tolerance

takes offenseforgives

Ceases to blame

tolerates · accepts · overlooks · excuses · pardons

Family

take, takes, taken, taking, taker, takers, takeover, intake, uptake

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G