take the rough with the smooth

Accept all outcomes

To take the rough with the smooth is to accept difficult times along with easy ones, acknowledging that life includes both hardship and comfort.

The phrase counsels equanimity—neither complaining too much during struggles nor becoming complacent during prosperity: Marriage means taking the rough with the smooth.

Chiefly British; Americans more often say "take the good with the bad."

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grin and bear it · swings and roundabouts · adaptation · weather the storm · resilience · ebb and flow · perseverance · ups and downs · fortitude · deal with · bite the bullet · adversity · yin-yang · equilibrium · weather · manage · look on the bright side · equanimity

Opposites
emotional resilience

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Lose emotional control

catastrophize

selectivity of experience

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Select only favorable items

pick and choose

emotional response to adversity

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Complain in high pitch

grumble · throw a tantrum · fall apart · kick up a fuss · have a meltdown

Family

take, takes, took, taken, taking, taker, takers, rough, roughs

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Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G