swallowed a bitter pill

Accepted harsh reality

To swallow a bitter pill is to accept something unpleasant or humiliating, especially when you have no choice.

The metaphor compares accepting harsh reality to forcing down foul-tasting medicine: Losing to our rivals was a bitter pill to swallow.

Sometimes shortened to a bitter pill: The divorce was a bitter pill, but she moved on.

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accept defeat · acquiescence · eating crow · humility · concession · come to terms · reconciliation · maturity · inevitability · acknowledgment · reluctance · grin and bear it · insight · reflection · perseverance · self-awareness · disappointment · patience

Opposites
emotional experience of acceptance

swallowed a bitter pillreaped the rewards

rode high · lived the dream · struck gold · hit the jackpot

agency and choice

swallowed a bitter pillhad one's cake and ate it too

Got incompatible benefits simultaneously

dodged a bullet

agency and choice in accepting circumstances

swallowed a bitter pilllucked out

Succeeded by chance

Family

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