sore points
Sensitive discussion topics
Sore points are topics or issues that provoke sensitivity, irritation, or defensiveness when raised.
Like a tender spot on the body, touching on someone's sore points causes discomfort: Don't mention the divorce—it's still a sore point.
The phrase often appears with possessives: His failure to get promoted remains one of his sore points.
- vulnerabilitiesExploitable weak points
- painfulCausing hurt or ache
- weaknessDeficiency in force
- raw nerveUnprotected emotional sensitivity
- pressApply force downward
grievance · bone to pick · rub · soft spots · nerve · discomfort · resentment · hard feelings · sensitivity · tenderness · irritation · sour grapes · trauma · bruise · old wounds · betrayal · injustice · bad blood
- annoyancesannoyance, annoyances, irritations, irritation, nuisance
sore pointspoints of pride
Accomplishments one celebrates
strengths · comfort zones · strong suits · bright spots · happy memories
sore pointscommon ground
Points of agreement
neutral ground · shared interests · small talk · ice breakers · comfort zones
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