social embarrassment

Cringe-inducing moment

Social embarrassment is the uncomfortable self-consciousness that comes from violating social norms or being exposed in an unflattering way before others.

It ranges from minor awkwardness to deep humiliation: I still cringe at the social embarrassment of calling my teacher "Mom".

Unlike private shame, social embarrassment requires an audience—real or imagined—who witnesses the misstep.

Related

shame · mortified · faux pas · foot in mouth · red-faced · gaffe · uncomfortable · squirm · fumble · stammer · spotlight · witness · public · exposed · clumsy · apologize · recover · nervous laughter

Opposites
social comfort/ease

social embarrassmentpoise

Graceful, unshakable calm

composure · self-assurance · aplomb · grace under pressure · unflappability

social status/standing

social embarrassmentsaving face

Maintaining public honor

public recognition · standing ovation

emotional valence

social embarrassmentbelonging

State of fitting in

Family

social, society, societal, socialize, socialization, sociable, sociability, socially, unsocial

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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G