skeleton in closet

Buried family disgrace

A skeleton in the closet is a shameful secret from someone's past that they keep hidden: Every family has a skeleton in the closet.

The image suggests something that would cause embarrassment or scandal if discovered—an old disgrace tucked away where no one can see it.

Also skeleton in the cupboard in British English.

Opposites
visibility/disclosure

skeleton in closetpublic knowledge

Facts anyone can access

open book · common knowledge · full disclosure · out in the open · nothing to hide

moral valence of personal history

skeleton in closetbadge of honor

Source of earned pride

point of pride · claim to fame · crowning achievement · feather in one's cap · heroic deed

intentionality of concealment

skeleton in closethumble brag

Boast dressed as complaint

bragging rights · boast · public confession · tell-all · coming clean

Family

skeleton, closet, skeletal, skeletons, closets, closeted, closeting

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G