rubbing off on

Transferring habits to

When qualities or habits rub off on someone, they're transferred through proximity or repeated contact—the way ink might transfer from one surface to another.

The phrase usually describes how one person's traits gradually influence another: Her optimism is rubbing off on me.

The transfer can be positive or negative: I hope his bad habits don't rub off on the kids.

Related

monkey see monkey do · acculturation · role modeling · mentorship · smudging · conformity · abrasion · cultural exchange · staining · socialization · imitation · mimicry · copycat behavior · social learning · picking up on · catching on · resonance · cross-pollination

Opposites
intentionality of influence

rubbing off onteaching

Profession of instructing others

instructing · training · indoctrinating · drilling · coaching

direction of influence

rubbing off onrepelling

Pushing away forcefully

rejecting · tuning out · shutting out · blocking out

influence direction

rubbing off ontaking after

Showing family resemblance

emulating

Family

rubbed, rubber, rubbing, rubdown, offing

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G