romantic ploy

Wooing manipulation scheme

A romantic ploy is a calculated move designed to win someone's affection or advance a romantic agenda—sending flowers to make up after a fight, feigning interest in someone's hobby, engineering a "chance" encounter.

The term carries a note of skepticism about the schemer's sincerity: His sudden attentiveness was just a romantic ploy to get back together.

Related
  • schemeCalculated strategy, often secretive
  • seductionEnticing someone romantically
  • ruseDeliberate act of deception
  • flirtationPlayful romantic attention
  • wooingRomantic pursuit of another

stolen glances · stratagem · charm · pursuit · gambit · manipulation · courtship · trick · jealousy · gesture · flowers · candlelight · love letter · love · deception · woo · wine and dine · tactic

Opposites
sincerity

romantic ploytrue love

Authentic romantic connection

unconditional love · emotional honesty

spontaneity vs. calculation

romantic ploynatural attraction

Innate pull toward something

directness of approach

romantic ployopen communication

Unrestricted exchange of information

unvarnished truth

Family

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