romantic escapism

Sentimental flight away

Romantic escapism is the tendency to retreat into idealized fantasies of love and passion as refuge from ordinary life.

The term often carries mild criticism—suggesting someone prefers daydreams or romance novels to dealing with real relationships: Her romantic escapism kept her from seeing who he actually was.

The phrase can also describe media that offers such fantasies: The film is pure romantic escapism.

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melodrama · fanfiction · nostalgia · fairy tales · true love's kiss · idealization · rose-colored glasses · projection · cultural myths · love songs · longing · poetry · sentimentality · wedding traditions · yearning · swept off feet · self-soothing · avoidance

Opposites
relationship to reality

romantic escapismbrutal honesty

Unsparing directness in speech

disillusionment · realism · gritty realism · groundedness · disenchantment

emotional orientation

romantic escapismcynicism

Distrust of human sincerity

tough-mindedness · emotional restraint · astringency · pessimism · bleak outlook

engagement with difficulty

romantic escapismrolling up one's sleeves

Preparing for effort

radical acceptance · bearing witness

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G