reindeer games

Exclusive group antics

Reindeer games are activities that exclude or mock outsiders—from the story of Rudolph, whose fellow reindeer wouldn't let him join their games until his difference proved useful.

The phrase usually carries a note of pettiness or cruelty: I'm not interested in their reindeer games.

It can also mean any frivolous or mischievous activity: What reindeer games are you two up to?

Related

caribou · exclusion · herd behavior · gatekeeping · ostracism · cliques · misfit · Santa Claus · jingle bells · game · outcast · bullying · sleigh · holiday cheer · gift exchange · island of misfit toys · prancing · antlers

Categories
Opposites
social inclusion

reindeer gamesopen arms

Welcoming body language

belonging · inclusion · unconditional acceptance · open invitation · hospitality

behavioral sincerity

reindeer gamesstraight shooting

Honest, direct communication

plain dealing · straightforwardness · straight talk · honesty · directness

competition authenticity

reindeer gamesfair play

Honorable conduct in games

level playing field · meritocracy · sportsmanship · good sportsmanship · fair game

Family

games, reindeer, reindeers

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G