put one's foot in it

Say something awkward

To put one's foot in it is to say or do something tactless or embarrassing, usually by accident: I really put my foot in it when I asked about her husband—I didn't know they'd divorced.

The idiom suggests stepping into something unpleasant, like mud or worse.

Also appears as put one's foot in one's mouth.

Related

misunderstanding · chagrin · mortification · misstep · tactlessness · speak out of turn · slip-up · regret · faux pas · indiscretion · crossed the line · clanger · misphrasing · awkward silence · awkwardness · oversharing · shame · tone-deafness

Opposites
social communication competence

put one's foot in itread the room

Perceive social atmosphere accurately

finesse · keep one's mouth shut · hold one's tongue · think before speaking · social grace

intentionality of offense

put one's foot in itbarb

Backward-pointing spike

pointed remark · backstab

social tact and discretion

put one's foot in ithandle with kid gloves

Treat very carefully

read the room · tread carefully · finesse · keep one's counsel · bite one's tongue

Family

puts, putting, putter, ones, foot, footwear, footed, footer, footing

Familiarity
Top 200,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G