pull one's punches

Soften the blow

To pull one's punches is to hold back, to restrain the force of criticism or attack.

From boxing, where a fighter might deliberately soften blows.

Almost always appears in the negative: She doesn't pull her punches when reviewing bad restaurants.

Someone who doesn't pull punches speaks bluntly, without diplomatic softening.

Related

bite one's tongue · soften · ease up · diplomatic · go easy · take it easy · spare · tone down · euphemize · downplay · mollify · soft-pedal · temper · measured · relent · considerate · mitigate · lighten

Opposites
force and intensity of attack

pull one's punchesgo for the jugular

Exploit maximum vulnerability

go all out · hold nothing back · let someone have it · pull no punches · go for broke

honesty and directness of communication

pull one's punchesnot mince words

tell it like it is · pull no punches · lay it on the line · call a spade a spade · let someone have it

Family

pull, pulls, pulled, pulling, puller, punch, punches, punched, punching

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G