played the field

Avoided romantic commitment

Played the field means pursued romantic or sexual relationships with multiple people rather than committing to one.

The field metaphor suggests a range of available partners to choose from: After his divorce, he played the field for a few years before settling down.

Sometimes extended to exploring options generally: She played the field before accepting a job offer.

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sowing wild oats · options · love triangle · experimentation · choice · novelty · flexibility · curiosity · trial-and-error · noncommittal · detachment · autonomy · sampling · keeping options open · liberation · avoidance · attraction · heartbreak

Opposites
romantic commitment

played the fieldsettled down

Became calm or stationary

committed · tied the knot · got hitched · married · wed

relational seriousness

played the fieldsettled down

Became calm or stationary

took the plunge · popped the question · got married · put down roots · started a family

Family

play, played, playing, plays, player, players, playful, playfully, playfulness

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