pinky promising

Childish binding vow

Pinky promising is making a solemn pledge by linking pinky fingers with another person.

The gesture is associated with childhood but persists into adulthood as a way to signal sincere commitment, often with playful or affectionate overtones: We're pinky promising to keep this secret.

Breaking a pinky promise is considered a serious betrayal of trust.

Related

ritual · oath · scout's honor · covenant · high-five · assurance · symbolism · superstition · commitment · custom · unbreakable · vow · childhood · playground · ceremony · contract · pact · waving

Opposites
formality of commitment

pinky promisingcontractual obligation

Enforceable promise in agreement

notarizing · blood oath · marriage vows

sincerity/intent to keep

pinky promisinglying

Stating known falsehoods

deceiving · betraying · reneging · paying lip service · bluffing

commitment strength

pinky promisinghedging

Noncommittal maneuvering

vowing · keeping options open · waffling · equivocating

Family

pinky, promising, pink, pinkish, pinkie, pinkies, promise, promised, promises

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G