pathetic

Deserving only contempt

Pathetic describes something that arouses pity or sadness: a pathetic sight, pathetic cries for help.

More commonly now, it means contemptibly inadequate or weak—deserving scorn rather than sympathy: That was a pathetic excuse, His attempts at flirting were pathetic.

The shift from pitiful to pitiable captures how the word moved from compassion to dismissal.

contemptible

despicable

Morally worthless, beneath regard

deplorable · lamentable · sorry · worthless · lousy · crummy · dismal · poor · inadequate · inferior

pitiful

pitiable

Deserving sympathetic sorrow

  • wretchedExtremely unhappy or unfortunate
  • miserableWretchedly unhappy, dejected
  • sorryExpressing regret or apology

sad · touching · moving · poignant · heartrending · compassionate · tender · affecting · stirring · plaintive

ineffectual

feeble

Weak and ineffective

futile · inadequate · incompetent · inept · ineffective · toothless · fruitless · unsuccessful · unproductive · unavailing

emotional

tearful

Prone to weeping

melodramatic · overwrought · sobbing · sniveling · whimpering · blubbering · lachrymose · histrionic · theatrical · self-pitying

Categories
Opposites
quality/competence

patheticimpressive

Evoking admiration or awe

excellent · admirable · outstanding · superb · remarkable

emotional affect/pity-worthiness

patheticenviable

Arousing covetous feelings

fortunate · blessed · triumphant · inspiring · uplifting

dignity/respect

patheticdignified

Composed and respectable

noble · admirable · estimable · respectable · honorable

Phrases
Family

sympathetic, apathetic, unsympathetic, pathetic fallacy, pathetically, apathetically, unsympathetically, unempathetic

Familiarity
Top 5,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G